Transitioning from City to Rural Cottage Life my story and advice to other dreamers and romantics

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This video is for those seeking to change their life or to move away from the city, feeling overwhelmed or stuck in the situation they are in. Maybe you simply wish to reimagine or romanticize your life into something new. I am unable to offer specific advice, since I am not a finance nor real estate expert. But even if I was, I think everyone’s situation is so unique that it is difficult to give examples that are applicable to everyone. Therefore, I wish to suggest a new way of looking at one’s own life as a storybook full of chapters that are each meaningful part of your journey. Maybe you are not where you wish you were. As you wait for that time to come, there is so much to experience and learn. I wish to turn away from the idea that we need to be in a specific location (city, town, or country) to be happy or to lead the peaceful and meaningful life we yearn for. In my personal experience, the answer didn’t come from moving to a new place and leaving a chaotic and loud city. These changes, of course, were positives for me and helpful to my spirit that yearned for quietness and peace and slow living. However, this peace and slowness can be achieved in many walks of life. We can live environmentally conscious lives wherever we are. We can cultivate happiness wherever we are. Moving isn’t an option for many, be it for financial, health, and other practical reasons. You can bring aspects of what you love into your own life, be it in a city or town.
We spend so much time on social media admiring incredible lifestyles that are full of adventure and excitement we must keep in mind that no matter where you go you often take your personal struggles with you. Your own life, right now, can be a dream come true. Not a perfect dream, maybe, but reality often works that way. I hope this video brings you comfort wherever in life you are, and that my personal story can help others who have struggled with sadness and depression. Life goes on, seasons change, and so will you. One day is different from the next, and if you stay hopeful and are not afraid to ask for help, things can get better and more manageable. Overtime, your life may change completely. Embrace your story and the many paths it takes you on, positive and challenging. Each chapter has something to teach if you wish to learn.

Sending love to all,
Paola


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Some resources that may be helpful to those seeking to change their life or are unhappy in their situation (these do not necessarily reflect my own opinions, I just wanted to offer a variety of perspectives and advice):

On loving where you already live: https://globalgoose.com/lovewherey...

https://www.theminimalistmom.com/isc...

What to consider about rural living: https://www.frugalwoods.com/2020/07/0...